?definitely I wanted him to have my number. ? Actually, it wasn?t really what he said to me. It was the way he handled himself?.?
This is what I heard as I guiltily eavesdropped on a conversation between 3 women on a train the other day. I was really curious and also surprised by what I heard because I always thought you got a ladies phone number by what you say and not what your body language was doing.
However, a little fact bubbled up into my mind, reminding me that body language happens on a subconscious level and either you have it as a guy or you don?t.
I was just deciding to throw the thought out of my head, when I realized I could check Wikipedia and found that, as stated by James Borg, ? communication consists of 93 per cent body language?..and 7% only of communication is made up of words themselves.
This hit me like a train. Why had I been putting so much emphasis on what I said to women? Probably because I?ve been conditioned to think this way; all those American films where the guy goes up to the girl at the bar and wins her over with the perfect one liner. So what the heck is body language?
Most of the time I?m not that conscious of my body, but then there are other times when I feel really body-conscious, and I have to admit it?s when I?m feeling good about myself.
Is there anything we can actually do about our body language attraction? And if it?s true, is it effective to change our body language to improve our self-esteem? and probably more importantly to attract the opposite sex?
I know from my own experience and reading that some of the most powerful spiritual methods since the turn of the century, like Alcohol Anonymous, 12 step recovery and Landmark, all place great emphasis on acting yourself into a whole new way of thinking.
So I supposed why on earth we couldn?t do the same with body language?
And when you look at the huge percentage of our communication which is achieved through ours bodies, had anyone really looked into how to harness this power of body language to not only change our inner being but also to attract a mate. A new system called body language attraction.
I did a bit of research and wasn?t particularly impressed with what I found until I clicked on Rob Brinded?s, codeofthenatural.com.
Curious to find more about a free report into ?top 10 secrets to reprogram your body language to trigger attraction in women?, I eventually had to buy his multimedia eBook and have, much to my surprise, that his work is highly effective and thoroughly under-priced for what you get.
In doing probably about 5 minutes of movements a day my confidence and self-esteem has really improved, and I have noticed women staring at me for the first time in my life!
For me body language attraction has been totally missed as a concept, which for me is unbelievable ? there really IS something extremely powerful this body language system.
Funnily enough we have been much slower that our friends in the animal kingdom in understanding the huge role of body language in attracting the opposite sex. I?m going to show a lot more respect to the stars of David Attenboroughs next documentary and look for more lessons that I can use in my world.
Want to find out more about Body Language, then visit Rob Brinded?s site on how to choose the best Body Language Attraction solution for your needs.
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